The institution of marriage...
The institution of marriage...
marriage
is it antiquated?
quaint?
do you recommend it?
does it interfere with your clubbing abilities?
soon I will be trying this on for the rest of me life so need some advice ala mb
is it antiquated?
quaint?
do you recommend it?
does it interfere with your clubbing abilities?
soon I will be trying this on for the rest of me life so need some advice ala mb
- Ides-GotFunk?
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u poor dude
ur so confused over the thought of marriage that uve resorted to a melbourne beats post like this?
ARE YOU INSANE?!
you know i love you guys, whatever you to need to do to express ur love for each other, go do it... we should all be so fucking lucky to find our soul mate like u have
ur so confused over the thought of marriage that uve resorted to a melbourne beats post like this?
ARE YOU INSANE?!
you know i love you guys, whatever you to need to do to express ur love for each other, go do it... we should all be so fucking lucky to find our soul mate like u have
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yep I'm insane, just was having a laugh and thought I would let others in on it.Ides-GotFunk? wrote:u poor dude
ur so confused over the thought of marriage that uve resorted to a melbourne beats post like this?
ARE YOU INSANE?!
you know i love you guys, whatever you to need to do to express ur love for each other, go do it... we should all be so fucking lucky to find our soul mate like u have
I'm very happy Ides don't worry, not confused at all
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me thinks someone has cold feet if they posting a thread about it!
not personally for me....until the boy asks me anyways
go for it matey, if you thinking about it, sounds like you keen on the idea.
just discuss the partying and such things if you think it will be an issue before you get hitched or whatever.....one would presume you and your (i presume) gorgeous girl would be living together already yeah? so you would have a pretty good idea how things are anyways yeah? but anyways, talk it out, and at least it won't be a big issue down the track...or an unexpected one for either party.
Good luck Mr Lob
not personally for me....until the boy asks me anyways
go for it matey, if you thinking about it, sounds like you keen on the idea.
just discuss the partying and such things if you think it will be an issue before you get hitched or whatever.....one would presume you and your (i presume) gorgeous girl would be living together already yeah? so you would have a pretty good idea how things are anyways yeah? but anyways, talk it out, and at least it won't be a big issue down the track...or an unexpected one for either party.
Good luck Mr Lob
cheers lizkins thought I would get insulted, abused and also offered great advice that's why I luv mb and put in my post.Lizkins wrote:me thinks someone has cold feet if they posting a thread about it!
not personally for me....until the boy asks me anyways
go for it matey, if you thinking about it, sounds like you keen on the idea.
just discuss the partying and such things if you think it will be an issue before you get hitched or whatever.....one would presume you and your (i presume) gorgeous girl would be living together already yeah? so you would have a pretty good idea how things are anyways yeah? but anyways, talk it out, and at least it won't be a big issue down the track...or an unexpected one for either party.
Good luck Mr Lob
nah totally happy with our choice, thanks again
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mr lob wrote:yep I'm insane, just was having a laugh and thought I would let others in on it.Ides-GotFunk? wrote:u poor dude
ur so confused over the thought of marriage that uve resorted to a melbourne beats post like this?
ARE YOU INSANE?!
you know i love you guys, whatever you to need to do to express ur love for each other, go do it... we should all be so fucking lucky to find our soul mate like u have
I'm very happy Ides don't worry, not confused at all
are you getting a pre-nup
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I reckon no one believes in the sanctity of marriage any more.
Thats why people can get married now days.
No one expects it to work under the old traditional values (Get house/mortgage/kids/dog etc.) so they are actually prepared to take a risk get married and do it their own way.
I think its great and it would be even better if homosexuals could do it!!
Go for it, do it your own way!
Thats why people can get married now days.
No one expects it to work under the old traditional values (Get house/mortgage/kids/dog etc.) so they are actually prepared to take a risk get married and do it their own way.
I think its great and it would be even better if homosexuals could do it!!
Go for it, do it your own way!
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If it works for ya.... do it
but just don't let that little bit of paper change your situation....
For me I am not bothered either way, I love my boy and as long as he knows it that is all i care about.......
people can fall into the trap of getting married then putting unrealistic (and unneccesarry) expectations and roles onto each other.... You fell in love for a reason so let that reason shine through....
but just don't let that little bit of paper change your situation....
For me I am not bothered either way, I love my boy and as long as he knows it that is all i care about.......
people can fall into the trap of getting married then putting unrealistic (and unneccesarry) expectations and roles onto each other.... You fell in love for a reason so let that reason shine through....
Charlie's hit it on the head me thinks.
(congrats by the way Mr Lob, I didn't know )
Marriage is different things to different people. I'm afraid that these days it's so easily dissolved that some people treat it like asprin. Celebs even use it to get media attention (look at Pammy & Kid Rock for heavens sake...3 weddings and a divorce in as many months, it's pathetic).
But some people do it for the right reasons and come hell or high water, they stick with it. I believe people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. If you've found that lifetime kind of girl, then I applaud your decision to lock it in Larry.
Big ups and good luck
(congrats by the way Mr Lob, I didn't know )
Marriage is different things to different people. I'm afraid that these days it's so easily dissolved that some people treat it like asprin. Celebs even use it to get media attention (look at Pammy & Kid Rock for heavens sake...3 weddings and a divorce in as many months, it's pathetic).
But some people do it for the right reasons and come hell or high water, they stick with it. I believe people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. If you've found that lifetime kind of girl, then I applaud your decision to lock it in Larry.
Big ups and good luck
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thanks for takin the time...it's locked and loaded, Chiang Mai, Thailand July 15, any djs and party peeps wanna fly in and party with us Thai Stylee, you're welcomeThe Mixtress wrote:Charlie's hit it on the head me thinks.
(congrats by the way Mr Lob, I didn't know )
Marriage is different things to different people. I'm afraid that these days it's so easily dissolved that some people treat it like asprin. Celebs even use it to get media attention (look at Pammy & Kid Rock for heavens sake...3 weddings and a divorce in as many months, it's pathetic).
But some people do it for the right reasons and come hell or high water, they stick with it. I believe people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. If you've found that lifetime kind of girl, then I applaud your decision to lock it in Larry.
Big ups and good luck
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Congrats Lobman! have no fear or doubt ! you will know youre self if the lady is right for you! me thinks you already knows! as for partying, vows or certificates don"t stop it. attitudes towards partying stop it, if you want it to ! further down the track, having kids can certainly change your partying habits but, theres still plenty opportunities for hangovers! myself 12 years on , would'nt want it any other way ! big ups my man! i'll try to catch you before chrissy!
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Call me old fashion, but to me marriage means a shitload of great things.
1. Finding your soulmate
2. Procreating and bringing kids into this world and raising them the best way you can and giving them the best headstart in life you can.
3. Spending the rest of your life with the one you love, growing old and grey together sitting on the front porch in rocking chairs (shotgun optional) talking about "when i was a kid" stories.
4. Knowing that you have found the one, never cheating on that one, and caring for that one through sickness, health and death.
Personally i cannot wait!
Sept 27th 2007 for us.
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1. Finding your soulmate
2. Procreating and bringing kids into this world and raising them the best way you can and giving them the best headstart in life you can.
3. Spending the rest of your life with the one you love, growing old and grey together sitting on the front porch in rocking chairs (shotgun optional) talking about "when i was a kid" stories.
4. Knowing that you have found the one, never cheating on that one, and caring for that one through sickness, health and death.
Personally i cannot wait!
Sept 27th 2007 for us.
Fenton Loves Rachel 4 eva!
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Got married 8 months ago, was an awesome party and very emotional ceremony for me. I love being married and i think it's really cool my wife and I have the same name.
We have a whole lot of cool presents and we got to see a bunch of friends and family that we hadn't seen for years (5 years in some intstances) and they all got to meet each other.
I'm damn sure that my wife is the person i want to be with for the rest of my life and there is no-one that could possibly be better for me. And being married makes life a lot easier in terms of joint accounts, travelling, inquiring about bills and stuff and aussie citizenship or EU visa's.
I think it's wicked, but i was hella nervous before hand, now I'm so glad we got married, go for it Mr Lob.
We have a whole lot of cool presents and we got to see a bunch of friends and family that we hadn't seen for years (5 years in some intstances) and they all got to meet each other.
I'm damn sure that my wife is the person i want to be with for the rest of my life and there is no-one that could possibly be better for me. And being married makes life a lot easier in terms of joint accounts, travelling, inquiring about bills and stuff and aussie citizenship or EU visa's.
I think it's wicked, but i was hella nervous before hand, now I'm so glad we got married, go for it Mr Lob.
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Fents, omg. Reading that gave me a tearie.Fents wrote:Call me old fashion, but to me marriage means a shitload of great things.
1. Finding your soulmate
2. Procreating and bringing kids into this world and raising them the best way you can and giving them the best headstart in life you can.
3. Spending the rest of your life with the one you love, growing old and grey together sitting on the front porch in rocking chairs (shotgun optional) talking about "when i was a kid" stories.
4. Knowing that you have found the one, never cheating on that one, and caring for that one through sickness, health and death.
Personally i cannot wait!
Sept 27th 2007 for us.
Fenton Loves Rachel 4 eva!
Marriage is old fashioned, but somewhere along the way old fashioned became uncool and underated.
Too many people do it just 'cos' which in the end takes the piss out of something that is essentially beautiful and should be a lot more respected than it is.
My sister got married on what seemed like a whim. Invited the immediate fambo for a lunch and we kinda suspected they'd announce an engagement. At the end of the lunch when nothing was said we all kinda thought 'maybe we're wrong'. Then Chryss says 'so, we're going across the street to Treasury Place to get married, who wants to come?'
It was awesome
It was awesome
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Lil MiSbreaks wrote: Too many people do it just 'cos' which in the end takes the piss out of something that is essentially beautiful and should be a lot more respected than it is.
Times change, people change - and society changes...
I read something on the weekend like almost 50% of marriages fail these days. That definately adds weight to your statement there LMB.
I am not married.
But i think i would only ever pop the question once the relationship reached a stage where i was sure the other person was my life partner. Would have to of been through some hard arse shit and proven our worth to each other in some serious ways for me to ask someone to share their life with me.
But i think i would only ever pop the question once the relationship reached a stage where i was sure the other person was my life partner. Would have to of been through some hard arse shit and proven our worth to each other in some serious ways for me to ask someone to share their life with me.
i don't reckon people take it more lightly these days... well some do i'm sure like pammy and kid rock.
i think a lot of it is that if it does break down it's a lot more acceptable in today's society. where as back in the day a lot of people stayed in very unhappy marriages because they would be shunned if they were seperated / divorced - by religion and by general culture at the time.
it's horrible to think of woman staying with physically abusive partners or putting up with cheating just 20 years ago because of the way they'd be viewed by others if they left. not to say that doesn't still happen but hopefully it's reduced...
anyway that aside. i reckon marriage is awesome. i got married about 1.5 years ago an highly recommend it
i don't reckon it should really change anything in your relationship other than the deep warm fuzzy feeling you have when you look at your partner and know that they have the same hopes and dreams for sharing your lives together that you feel. it's nice to be able to look at them and KNOW that you've both made that commitment to each other based on the love you feel.
i think a lot of it is that if it does break down it's a lot more acceptable in today's society. where as back in the day a lot of people stayed in very unhappy marriages because they would be shunned if they were seperated / divorced - by religion and by general culture at the time.
it's horrible to think of woman staying with physically abusive partners or putting up with cheating just 20 years ago because of the way they'd be viewed by others if they left. not to say that doesn't still happen but hopefully it's reduced...
anyway that aside. i reckon marriage is awesome. i got married about 1.5 years ago an highly recommend it
i don't reckon it should really change anything in your relationship other than the deep warm fuzzy feeling you have when you look at your partner and know that they have the same hopes and dreams for sharing your lives together that you feel. it's nice to be able to look at them and KNOW that you've both made that commitment to each other based on the love you feel.
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congrats mr lob!
and fents, you are so sweet and glowing!~
i have been asked to marry three guys > but only for my passport. phht.
my folks are one of the only happily married parent couples i know, thirty years and counting, still slappin each other on the arses and being silly.
i have a lot to live up to.....
reading the comments on here is both reassuring and beautiful.
i have been saying for a while that me and my kitty will probably end up spinsters, but i do really hope thats not the case.
and fents, you are so sweet and glowing!~
i have been asked to marry three guys > but only for my passport. phht.
my folks are one of the only happily married parent couples i know, thirty years and counting, still slappin each other on the arses and being silly.
i have a lot to live up to.....
reading the comments on here is both reassuring and beautiful.
i have been saying for a while that me and my kitty will probably end up spinsters, but i do really hope thats not the case.
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script to that d.DBoy wrote:Would have to of been through some hard arse shit and proven our worth to each other in some serious ways for me to ask someone to share their life with me.
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind - Dr. Seuss
Personally, I've never wanted to tie the knot. I always thought that a simple piece of paper wasn't going to assure me my man was faithful. I always thought it was just a legality...considering if you're de facto for 6 months you still have the right to claim half of everything should things fall foul.
But I'm beginning to see the romantic side of it. In this day and age, I figured I could never find a love like the one my parents found but I reckon if my boy asked me now, I might just consider it
But I'm beginning to see the romantic side of it. In this day and age, I figured I could never find a love like the one my parents found but I reckon if my boy asked me now, I might just consider it
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